I’m sure you hear of FOMO. 

Fear of missing out. 

Well, I’d like to add FOCOM to your lexicon. 

FOCOM = Fear of Commitment

Do you see it in our society today? 

  • Friends are waiting till the last minute to finalize weekend plans, just in case another offer comes along. 
  • Business professionals not wanting to make a decision, so we delay or create a committee.
  • Or someone who wants a goal doesn’t even take the first step because their history of failure cripples them from committing.

And our internal thoughts often hold us back. 

What happens if it doesn’t work out? 

What happens if I can’t deliver on my promise?  

What will people think of me?

Yes, these are real concerns but should this prevent you from making commitments? 

by Eric Papp 

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